Dating what are red flags
They may be good at short-term intimacy and make you feel like a king or queen; but eventually, they don’t keep up that act.You’ll discover that their motive is to get what they want; for example, sex, but that they’re not interested in getting to know more about you, your family, problems, or successes. This is revealed in their behavior and how they talk about themselves and others.This may impress you, but will later depress you when you feel ignored or like a prop in their life. It reveals how narcissists think that they’re the center of the universe.
Equally important, notice if you feel anxious or uncomfortable, pressured, controlled, ignored, or belittled.
I’ve had a number of clients who claimed that the courtship with their narcissistic spouse was wonderful, and that abuse only began following the wedding.