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If someone did this to us in real life, it would be completely psychotic, but because it’s over text or an instant message, we’ve somehow resigned ourselves to thinking it’s OK. Even in the golden ages, the “Dear John” letter was left on the table in the foyer, but now, we’re lucky if you even get a typed string of characters saying “I’m sorry, it’s not working.” We’re hyper-focused on sex.
Sex is scarily available — we can have it simply with the swipe of a finger.
It’s amazing how millennials view the luxury of having instant access to communication as something we need to treat as if we’re still using carrier pigeons. Social media and thousands of dating profiles shoved in our faces leads us to believe we’re entitled a fairy tale life that doesn’t truly exist.
Instant messaging is just that — it’s instant — but we still withhold our response times to try and show just how busy, important, and unattached we are. We write people off for a minor detail and quickly look for the next best thing that we’ll somehow also find flaws in. We fail to realize that relationships are a balanced bond and that with the amazing things come imperfections as well. We don’t believe we need to settle on anything because there’s always someone better looking with a better family life, better hobbies or someone with a better bank account.
We’re left constantly wondering where relationships are headed, if anywhere, and plague ourselves with wondering if we’re wasting our time.
If you’re REALLY lazy and just don’t want to put the effort into getting laid, then you need to watch this video.
Adult dating sites are geared towards “casual sex” or “one night stands” as opposed to the normal kind which just focus on relationships and finding a soul mate.