How to handle dating multiple men
When I was sixteen, my sister and I were helping my grandmother organize some old photographs.
I'd just gone through a particularly harrowing breakup (it involved the bitter division of Wesley Snipes film bootlegs on VHS, to provide both historical and raw emotional context). "What a skank."To us, and all of our friends, agreeing to a single date with a dude implied consent to monogamy thenceforth.
However, women who remain faithful while dating are doing it all wrong - according to one expert.“If you’re a single woman who’s serious about finding The One, the best way to do it is to make sure you’re dating several men at once,” claimed Sami Wunder, author of Your Feminine Roadmap To His Commitment.
According to Sami, no woman should be exclusive with any man until he has proposed and there is a ring on her finger.“Trust me, this method works,” the expert claims.“Dating one man at a time means we close down all our options early on, which can often make us prematurely commit to a man who may not be the best fit for us in the long run,” she added.
A master manipulator figures out from the introduction that you’re either the type of woman who has guys knocking at her door, or the type who cracks the door and hopes someone walks by. There are women who know their value, but there remains a large percentage who by this paranoia that there are only a few quality men in this world that will ever cross her path and be interested.
As soon as this type of female meets a man that has four out of her ten must-have’s, she shuts down shop and prays to the heavens that this guy sticks around.
“In fact, this slight competition might actually fire his desire to step up and claim you even more aggressively.” 3.While “Go be with them other bitches” has become a girl power battle cry, it’s a hollow threat.Once a woman is infatuated with a man, she doesn’t really want him to go be with other bitches, her actions of submitting to his demands or trying to make it work contradict her, “you must not know about me” bravado.And if you've got the kind of girl who reeeeeally isn't looking for exclusivity, she doesn't want you barfing your gross emotion germs all over her. I'm pretty sure that the bat and the pig that combined viruses to make The Contagion met on e Harmony and that I've had sex with them both.
Done responsibly, dating a lot of women is no longer considered outré.
Sami added: “Rotational dating doesn't mean you have to sleep with everyone.” 1.